Why no one is my friend?😱 

Hi, as you all know, I am sameera and I am 16 yes old…actually I am going yo turn 16 in very the very next month. Today I want to talk about my lonliness! I have family, a couple of friends and 2 siblings but still I feel as if I’m  totally alone.

In my early childhood, that was a period when my lil’ brother wasn’t born, I thought that I’m not at all important for my family because my family always supported my elder sister. Now when my younger brother came, I lost my all importance…… Which I never realised I had..!!😦

My friends.., I have 2 friends, actually 3, but one of my friends left me because she thinks that I am very rude to her and I’m snatching all her other friends…. But it isn’t true at all…I know!😱

My other two friends are there for me but one friend of them two(I don’t wanna take her name), also behaves as if she have some kind of problem with me…she always fight to me and make me realise that I don’t deserve them as my friends. And my other friend, who is really very very sweet to me, never makes me feel lonely and sad. She always support me in my bad and sad times and appreciate in my good times  and things. She let’s me know my good qualities and help me recover my bad ones. She is like my best friend but I never tell her because my other friends would feel then as if they are nothing to me. My all friends are my best friend and no one is special. But some times they tell me to choose one which I don’t like to.

I really feel so lonely with my family also. If someone asks me whom do you the most in your family, I am totally speechless.I start crying , and the other person thinks that I must not be having a family,and I am totally alone. Sometimes they also nakebfun of me that how lonely I am and no one in my family supports me.

I try to make everyone my friend and make everyone close to me in spite of not liking them at all but everyone hates me and don’t like to be my friend. 

Can anyone tell me why am so lonely and how shall I recover my lonliness??😭

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Racial discrimination!  😑

Racism is one of the world’s major issues today. Many people are not aware of how much racism still exists in our schools workforces, and anywhere else where social lives are occurring. It is obvious that racism is bad as it was many decades ago but it sure has not gone away. Racism very much exists and it is about time that people need to start thinking about the instigations and solutions to this matter. Many people believe that it depends on if a person was brought into the world as a racist or not but that is not the case at all. In fact, an individual cannot be born a racist but only learn to become one as they grow from child to adulthood. Basic causes, mainstream, institutions, government, anti racism groups, and even some hidden events in Canada’s past are a few of the possible instigations and solutions to racism. 


     To begin with, frustration is a very common cause of racism. If one is having some sort of a social problem, they tend to get very angry with people who are not even concerned with their situation. For instance, when a person is having a tough time economically, they find it easy to blame immigrants for taking away their jobs or creating fewer opportunities (Abanes 1992,12-15). This type of an analysis is very easy to make but when one makes this assumption, it usually leads to hate towards any minority group. The psychological factor is also common disturbance that is found as the root of racism. People with tough childhood may sometimes produce anger and hate towards others (Hayes 1995, 4-5). This kind of person is inclined to dominate others as these qualities attract to racism because of the way racism divides the world into superior and inferior. In these types of situations, one can only picture of what might go through the heads of such individuals. However, in some cases aggravation is only created by the mental thought. Change is a particular device that people cannot handle at all times. People are more comfortable around the recognizable and they find it hard to adapt to a culture that they are not familiar being with. Since 1987, Chinese have been settling in Vancouver, as the suburb of Richmond went from one in twenty to one in three of its residents being Chinese, in two decades. This rapid change was not acceptable for many people who moved out for that very reason so they can live in a “white town” again (Rupet 1996,13-15). On the other hand, one does not have to be a racist to increase the racism around them. For example, silence does not necessarily mean it can prevent racism but it may actually provoke it. Studies show that people are reluctant to speak out towards their friends or family who like to express their racist views. The report shows that such silence encourages the racists from voicing their opinion to direct violence (Rupet 1996,16). Most causes just are all based on or created by some sort of stereotype, which clearly develops discrimination. Many blacks may find that they have limits set around them when they are stereotyped as “good athletes and musicians”(Hayes 1995,27). This makes it very difficult for blacks to be taken seriously in any other fields of goals. It is quite evident that frustration is the root of all these common causes of racism and such annoyance is only produced by a vulnerable mind of an individual who is confused because of the troubles they are experiencing. 

My Intro….

Hi everyone, my name is sameera ✋. I love to write and share. That’s is why I’m here on WordPress. What I’m gonna write today is not a story , it’s me, I mean its all about myself.

I am a newcomer to this application and need you all to support and  help me in writing and develop my passion!!

Thank you all to my friends..hope you will all help and support me….!! 

                                                           – Sameera